Is She Faking It? 2 Reasons Women Fake Orgasm (The 1 Sure Shot Strategy to Ensure She Won't)

What are the most common reasons women fake orgasm? Is it because the sex is bad? Or, could it possibly be that you are BAD in bed? Maybe she can climax easily with previous partners but can't with you? Are you doing something wrong?

Or... maybe it's ALL about her? Could it be that there other more psychological or physiological reasons why a woman may pretend to be having a lot MORE fun in bed than she actually is that have NOTHING to do with the person she is in bed with, and instead are ALL about her own "issues" instead?

The truth is, regardless of what you may read elsewhere, women fake orgasm for a myriad of reasons.

Some women DO do it because of YOUR sexual ability... but believe it or not, the GOOD new is, that's actually less common than many of us are led to believe.

The most common reasons that woman admit to faking it are because she's self conscious about the amount of time it's taking HER to climax, and she is growing uncomfortable with the idea that YOU are growing uncomfortable.

It sounds a little bit counter intuitive... but even in 2013, many women are far more prone to being self conscious about being sexually selfish, and will think that "faking" it solves a bit of an immediate problem. The longer it takes her to orgasm, the more uncomfortable she begins to become. And the more uncomfortable she begins to become... the more difficult it is for her to enjoy herself enough to climax!

Make sense?

The other very common reason women are prone to fake an orgasm?

Believe it or not, for YOUR ego. (or for every man reading this... all of our egos!) There have been many, many very funny sexual studies done that show that men who THINK they are pleasing their women in bed are far more likely to be better partners in other areas of life... and that men who worry about their sexual stamina, or manly mojo between the sheets are FAR more likely to be harder to get along with in the more mundane areas of the relationship.

(e.g. - when we believe we are sexually satisfying our woman we are much more likely to be more confident and comfortable in the relationship, and good things invariably come from that... no pun intended..)

Remember, women are far more multi-sensory, sensual creatures than we are and their sexual response cycle is intimately involved with her emotional state as well.

And that includes for her what happens BEFORE sex, during sex and after sex as well. (especially for those of us in a long term relationship where future sex is often directly affected by what's happened between us in the past)

Of course, the best way to please your partner is to to focus on HER.

More foreplay. More attention to detail. For women, an orgasm is not just a sexual thing... but a sensual experience from start to finish.