How To Easily Overcome Those "Tests" That Guys Are So Terrified Of

You know how it is. You see that cute girl over there. You work up the courage to go and talk to her. You walk over, say some kind of interesting opener, and she doesn't slap you or throw a drink in your face. You start talking, and low and behold, she seems to like you.

Twenty minutes later when you're wondering if this is too good to be true, she lays one on you like a left hook out of nowhere. You feel as if the whole room has stopped, and everybody is staring at you.

You have been tested. If you pass her test, you'll get one level higher in the game of love. If you fail this test, the whole world will know you for the fraud you are, and you'll be forever banned from even looking at a cute girl.

Well, at least that's how it feels like.

But what is a test? Is it a mean spirited attempt to knock you down a peg? Are the gods of seduction worried that you are becoming too successful? Not in the least. Being tested is a good sign. A great sign. It means she likes you, and she's trying to find out if you're for real or not.

See, guys know if they like girls by looking at them. Because this happens so quickly, we don't even think about it. But a girl won't really feel the same attraction until she has a feel for a guys personality. And because this can be faked, she's got to test it to make sure it's real. She doesn't do this any more consciously that we guys consciously decide we want to look at big boobs (or whatever floats your boat).

So, the first step is to realize that a test is a positive, fantastic, wonderful sign that you're on the right track.

The second step is to understand that tests are used to determine the strength of your character. In her unconscious cave girl mind, she wants you to not be affected in the least by the test. That deep inner part of her wants you to just laugh it off. Because when you do, she'll become a lot more attracted to you.

Kind of like if you saw a girl that might be pretty hot across the room, only it's pretty smokey, so you can't really see. When you walk over to get a better look, are you hoping she'll be a perfect 10, straight out of Playboy, or are you hoping she'll look like your horrifying gym teacher from 3rd grade?

Understand tests, be able to laugh them off, and you'll be much, much better off.