Friday, 16 August 2013

Five Hidden Truths of Love

Love is tagged by hidden meanings, pertaining to each individual case as it grows and changes form with time. These tags help us identify the symptoms, the hidden truths to this emotion that paralyses the heart at any given time in our existence. If we are new at this then these tags help us define the emotion we experience. If we are old at this then they guide us on our path as they shape and strengthen our relationship. Below are five of these tags, hidden truths of love that shape the emotions we experience.
Tears and laughter
Love comes with tears and laughter. There is joy in love sometimes blinded by tears. There is sadness in love and this is also blinded by tears. Yet in each there is a lightness of the heart as these tears cleanse the body and lift the spirit to places beyond the realms of our imagination. Laughter does the same. What is truly amazing on the far end of each, is the memory we retain. Time stops to entertain both and whether it is a burden or otherwise we will pursue love knowing that it is a gamble at both ends of the scale of tears and laughter.
Selfishness and Jealousy
There is no deceiving one's self that these two emotions go hand in hand. We want our loved ones for us first and foremost. Sharing is out of the question. If we can accommodate this then the next thirst to quench is jealousy. This is difficult because it is done without our knowledge and what we experience is a tightening of the heart muscles and a clamping of our body functions. These tags cannot be avoided, they are part of love whether they serve a righteous or unrighteous purpose in the relationship. We are blind in this domain and no one can tell us otherwise.
Honesty
As part of a give and take that comes upon us for whatever reason unbeknown to man, true love makes us wish to tell each other deep secrets. We seek safety chambers in each others hearts as we thrive to confide in one another professing our hearts desires. This is a shameless act, a thirst for memories and once more our hearts are lifted whilst experiencing this.
Longevity
True love is a lasting emotion. It cannot be turned off and on by our whims. Its window of existence is independent of the brain and solely driven by the hearts emotions. This is not a case of moving on when one desires, the when and how true love ends is beyond comprehension of the human mind. In this domain the heart has full control of our senses.
When God is in our love
As powerful as love is in its many forms, there is one above it and that is God. No matter what emotions we may experience in the different types of love we have, God can make the changes that completely alter the love we have. To fully comprehend love we must start by loving God first. It is only through him that we can find perspective in love. He is the true tag of love because he is love.
I am the author of the Divinity Dawns Trilogy. My books are spiritual novels that serve as an invaluable guide for anyone conflicted in spirit.They take the reader deep into the mind and heart of a devout Christian struggling to reconcile his faith with the often hostile reality that surrounds him. They are deeply introspective, philosophical and epic.

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