How To Impress Her By Choosing The Right Conversational Topics

See that girl over there? The one you've been flirting with for the past ten minutes? She wants you to come and talk to her. You know it. And she likely knows that you know it. So what's keeping you.

One thing is wondering what to talk about. Sure, you may have some cool openers memorized, or something you're sure will get a laugh, but what do you talk about after that?

Once you've got a few conversation topics figured out, it won't seem so nerve wracking. Luckily, you can let her be your guide. All you've really got to do is talk about the things that she is interested.

But you can't just walk over there and start interrogating her. So what do you do? Read on.

First of all, walk over there with your favorite opener, or this one which almost always works, especially if you've exchanged eye contact and some smiles:

"Hi, my names Robert, I noticed you over here and I wanted to come and introduce myself."

This is easy, and doesn't put any pressure on her. After you exchange names, then you've got to keep it flowing. Most guys aren't aware of this, but girls are just as nervous as guys during that all important first conversation. So instead of trying to impress her with wicked game, focus on making it easier for her.

First, simply ask her what she does. Either for work or what she's studying in school. Then ask her if she likes it. Once she says "yes," (hopefully, lol) then tell her what you do, and talk about your job or course of study, for just a bit, and talk about why you like it. Tie this in with what you want to achieve in the future.

This is crucial. You're a man, so it's your job to lead. You need to walk over there, you need to get the ball rolling, and you need to "go first" when it comes to the conversation.

Before you ask her any question about herself, you should answer the question about yourself first.

So, if you tell her a couple of reasons why you like your job, and what you expect to be doing in a few years, then you can ask her the same thing.

Then tell her how you got interested in your job, or course of study, and give a brief back history. Then ask her the same thing.

You show her yours, and then you ask her to show you yours. If you slowly become more brave, then so will she. She'll not only find you interesting, but she'll very much like the fact that you can lead her through a nice, beginning conversation.

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