How To Become A Better Lover In Bed

Whether you're in a relationship or just having one night stands, your sexual performance is one of the key factors in showing women what you're capable of.

Of course it can be argued that there's a lot more to a man than his performance during sex, but the reality is why would a man limit himself. Becoming a sex god can only add more to your reportoire and reputation.

Let's get to the point. You want to become a better lover in bed, and you've probably been doing your research on how to do it.

By the end of this article I'm going to give you all of the hidden secrets and details on how to become a sex god.

Secret #1: It's not about you it's about her.

Quite simple isn't it? You might be thinking to yourself "duh, who doesn't know that."

The truth is that most people don't, and even if they do, their actions don't show that.

If you want to become a better lover in bed, your sole purpose should be to ask yourself how do I make her feel good. And then, what else can I do to take it to the next level?

Here's the result:

Sex is probably the deepest and strongest forms of physical and spiritual experiences you'll ever experience. By making it all about her, she will feel that caring from your part. Not only will she consider you a great lover, but she'll also return the favor many times later on.

Secret #2: Foreplay

This works every single time. If you're not taking it slow at first before having sex, then you're missing one of the key elements which makes sex so great.

The only reason I can tell you this is because of my own experiences with women. 9/10 times when you use foreplay the girl will tell you how great sex was and she'll most likely want it again.

How long to foreplay:

5-10 minutes. (10 Minutes if you want to make her suffer enough before she grabs you and takes control.)

Throughout this process make sure you never use your penis and kiss her whole body. This includes:

neck, ears, lips, chest, stomach, legs, vagina.

Secret #3: Try at least 3 different positions.

By doing this not only are you showing her that you can please her in multiple ways, but you'll find out what she enjoys most.

This will also allow you to last longer in bed, because it'll give you resting periods and prevent overstimulation from one position.

If you follow this advice as much as you can, there's no doubt that you'll be on your way to becoming a better lover in bed.

Another, obstacle that may come in your way is lasting longer in bed. If you're struggling with this issue read my review of 60 Minute Stamina to see if it's a good solution for you.

How to Seduce Women - Tips for Success With Women

How do you seduce women? Ask that question of 5 different guys and you'll probably get 5 different answers. And some of those answers will be totally off base, some will be comical, and some might actually have a little bit of merit to them. However, when you ask about seducing women, you probably are not looking for baseless theories, laughs or things that work such a small amount of the time that they are not even really worth doing. You probably are looking to have real and tangible success with women. Well, that can happen and this article is going to help you figure out what to do to make it happen.

Here are 3 tips for success with women so that you can seduce effectively:

1. Not all women are wired the same way, so you need multiple ways to approach.

At the most basic level, you might be able to argue that all women are wired pretty much the same way. However, going even just a little bit deeper, you'll find that there are lots of different personality types and because of that - you need to have multiple ways to approach women so that you can approach a broad range and not just one type. A lot of guys fall for that idea that there is "one way" and that just isn't true at all. You wouldn't approach an extroverted party girl the same exact way that you'd approach an introverted bookworm, would you?

2. One thing that does work on most women, though, is knowing how to start a conversation without sounding like a cheesy wannabe pick up artist.

For most women, if you come across like you really think you are a pick up artist or a ladies man, you don't get that far with them. They are naturally defensive when that is the impression that they get of you. On the other hand, if you know how to start a conversation without sounding like a guy who is trying hard to get laid, you'll do just fine most of the time.

3. Without sexual tension, you almost always end up with friendship or nothing at all.

The friend zone is a place that most guys end up in with women that they were trying hard to get with. If you don't want to end up in that barren wasteland of no chance at all for sex, also known as the friend zone, then you NEED to create sexual tension. Trying to seduce a woman without it is like trying to bake bread without any flour. It just doesn't work.

How to Seduce a Woman - 3 Easy to Follow Seduction Tips for Men

If you have ever read some of the theories on what it takes to seduce a woman before, then you've probably come across some stuff that seemed to be way too complicated to follow. There are some guys who take their theories to a level that just leaves most who read them totally confused. I've found that the more complicated that you make seduction - the more likely it is that you are just going to decide that it is too hard and therefore, give up on the idea that you can figure out how to seduce a woman. You really don't have to make it too complicated at all.

Here are 3 easy to follow seduction tips for men that are going to help you have success in seducing women:

1. Physical attraction doesn't always happen because of the way that you look physically, it can happen because of the body language that you exhibit.

It's really a good thing that it works this way, because if it didn't, you'd always run the risk of losing out to a guy who was better looking or in better shape than you are. If you learn how to use your body language so that it helps to give you that natural alpha male vibe when you meet a woman - that can end up being more than enough to make her start to feel physically attracted to you. If you observe the way that most guys hold themselves when they are around a woman they are attracted to, they are giving off the exact opposite of a natural alpha male vibe and you don't want to do that.

2. The quicker you can find a way to build rapport with a woman, the more likely you are going to be able to get some one on one time with her.

Building rapport doesn't have to be that hard. Once you can find a few things that you have in common with a woman and you are able to talk about those things while flirting with her at the same time - you are going to have more than enough rapport to get some one on one time with her. Of course, you need that one on one time if you are going to be able to really escalate things with her.

3. You don't need pick up lines - you need conversation openers.

You might think that pick up lines and conversation openers are the same thing, but when I talk about pick up lines - I mean those corny lines that everyone knows are played out. Most guys who are truly successful with women don't use pick up lines, they just find a way to open the conversation. The more natural the opener is, the better because it doesn't come across like a standard line that all guys use.