It is the eternal question when it comes to guys and sex. Does size really matter?
If you switch on daytime TV and flick through the channels you are bound to find a group of women talking about this topic on some level.
If you go to a your local corner store and look at the magazines for men on the front page you will see "Does Size Really Matter?" on at least one of them.
It maybe talked about all the time but do you really get the real answer in a simple way that you can understand? Do you still feel like you aren't the "stud" in bed that you truly want to be?
Size Doesn't Matter! - There I've Said It
Phew! Glad we got that out-of-the-way. Now let's get down to what really matters and break down what you need to know to be the "Ultimate Lover" into 5 easy to understand truths.
1. Confidence
Yep it true if you are confident in the sack then you are half-way there. A woman likes it when a man takes control, knows what he is doing and how to do it.
This just takes some research fellas. Women have several erogenous zones and if you know where these "sex buttons" are and how to stimulate them; then she will become putty in your hands.
2. Women Are Different
So moving on from our first point. Women are not like men when it comes to sex. We have the penis and that has a head. You create some "friction" the penis gets erect. Add some more friction and us guys get an orgasm.
Women aren't like that. They need to get in the mood. So bit of hugging to start, then some kissing. Then you can move on the getting her "hot".
She needs to be stimulated properly. The majority of women cannot reach orgasm from vaginal sex alone. You need to search online where these are on a woman "clitoris", "g-spot", "u-spot" and "AFE zone". Then research how to stimulate them.
3. Sexual Stamina And Lasting Longer
Fact: Women take longer to reach orgasm than men.
So having increased sexual stamina and being able to last longer is key. You can exercise your "male member" to do this. There is a technique called "jelqing". It is a technique over 5,000 years old.
Jelqing is easy to do and can be effective as you train up you "little guy" to be stronger and last longer.
4. Mix It Up
OK so we mentioned earlier that women have several erogenous zones including the g-spot. Well there are certain sexual positions that a couple can partake in that will maximize the chances of "hitting the g-spot" during sexual intercourse.
The same goes for other positions that can enhance the pleasure for the woman and the man. Don't be afraid to experiment. Just go with the flow and have fun... don't let your inhibitions stop you.
5. Slow Down Boys!
Most men get over excited when it comes to sex. We are kind of wired that way. We are programmed to plant our seed in as many women as possible so that our genes are passed on to the next generation.
Fact: Speed doesn't equate to great sex gentleman
If you take your time; her body and the woman in question herself will tell you when to speed up or slow down. Just be receptive and with a bit of practice you will soon be able to judge it right every time.
Conclusion
Look what I have written here isn't rocket science is it. Most of you could have probably worked it out for yourselves.
I just wanted to spell it out for you. Like if you want to lose weight... eat less and workout more.
Just re-read this article and think about how you have approached sex up until this point and make changes over time and soon you will be a better lover.
It will be worth it as both you and your partner will enjoy your sexual encounters much more.
Taking Action
I have written a guide called "Natural Penis Enlargement Exercises". It is free and it talks about jelqing in much more detail and how to do it properly. To find out more click here.
If you want to learn more about women and their sexual buttons then I would recommend the site Self Pleasure For Women. It's supposed to be for women but works just as well for us guys.
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