Do men and women secretly fantasize about the same things? If not... how do they differ, and where?
Everyone fantasizes.
In 2013, as gender equality in all areas moves closer and closer to the ideal in ALL areas of life - the idea that both men and women BOTH fantasize about sex is pretty well understood by all.
And while many women tend to know what men secretly think about before sex, or what inspires their imagination to find a partner, the truth is, the reverse remains largely a mystery to men.
In other words, men's sexual fantasies are pretty much an open book, while what WOMEN really want, remains elusive, hard to pin down, and mostly mysterious. (especially to men!)
The good news?
As more and more women become more open about what they find exciting, and we share aphrodisiacs and a collective erotic imagination through articles, sex surveys, and more... a common picture of what MOST women want in bed becomes pretty crystal clear.
For example -
One of the most common differences between the 2 sexes is this:
Typically women fantasize about one partner, usually their current partner while men fantasize about multiple partners (whereas men's fantasies tend to focus on specific activities and specific body parts).
An interesting finding of a few well known sex fantasy studies done in late 2012?
Women admitted to fantasizing about sex acts and parts of the male anatomy, but when asked... they are often unable to provide details about the objects of their fantasy (whereas again, men tend to know and remember EXACTLY what turns them, and their imaginations, on).
More interesting facts about female fantasies?
Not surprisingly.,...
Women tend to be more focused and involved with their emotional responses than fantasy man's characteristics.
Men fantasize more about fetishes, and having two women at the same time, whereas women tend to think about exotic locations, or making love in public, or even being intimate with several partners simultaneously.
Another very interesting difference between men and women is the vast disparity between what women tend to say they like... versus what men tend to universally agree that they do.
Where 85% of men tend to have similar sex tastes... women are far more varied in terms of what we consider to be titillating.
What pleases one may repulse another.
Married women tend to fantasize about very "mundane" sexual experiences too - like no distraction sex, or no kids for the weekend, or even a short get away with their husband. (whereas again, most men tend to MAINTAIN the same sexual imagination they had before they got married, well after as well!)
Submission fantasies are also common among women. They want to be the object of desire and passion.
They also like to think about turning the tables on their partner and dominating them.
Some women like to fantasize about things that are completely opposite to their personality.
For example?
If she is a "good girl" she may like to fantasize about being bad and going outside her normal sexual behavior.
For example, they may think about going to a bar and picking up a total stranger and having sex with him. Conversely, men tend to fantasize about things that are more "congruent" with their overall personalities.
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