What Your Girl REALLY Wants From You As a Man

Ever heard of a "chick test"?

If you don't know it by that name, you'll recognise the behaviour.

It's when she starts "challenging you". It can take many forms (a classic is to get you to cancel a night out with the boys and do something with her instead, even though you've had it planned for ages), but the underlying meaning is the same: she's testing the limits of your personal authority.

What she's testing is to see if you'll give in.

What she wants is you to do just that (but if you do, then it's the beginning of the slippery-slope ending with her legs wrapped around another guy's body).

But what she needs is you to stand up to her and tell her like it is: you're your own man. You're going out. Deal with it, Lady.

Now, most guys are too chicken to do this.

Why?

Because they think their Girl will leave them.

Yeah, maybe one in a bazillion will. And good riddance to her.

Because the vast majority of them will respect you. Listen, strong confident men turn women on like crazy.

You don't see James Bond being pushed around by the Bond Girls, do you?

No.

And while it's only fiction, it's an accurate representation of how women are with strong, confident guys.

But can't you see how this is NOT the same as being a douche to her?

You don't have to lie to her.

You don't have to sneak around and make excuses.

You just have to tell her how it is. And believe me, that's what any woman worth being with really wants you to do.

But look... this is just ONE example of the chick-tests women give you (I'll give you some more to look out for in another article).

And you know what... ?

It all boils down to one, simple misunderstanding...
That men and women are the same.

But if you start acting like a woman... then you get stuck into the "friend basket". You know, when a girl says to you, "but we can be friends?".

Well, I don't know about you, but I don't really want girls as "friends". I'm not saying you can't be friends with girls and I'm not saying you won't find that One Special Girl who'll become your friend as well as everything else... but the "friend" thing comes after and secondary to the amazing sex you have.

Women don't want guys as friends. That's what other women are for. They want guys to be guys. And when guys are friends they get relegated to the status of "honorary women" in a girls eyes.

But, it's funny, because you can turn the tables on them extremely easily.

I'll explain how some other time.

But if you're impatient, and you want to discover DOZENS of specific techniques for getting your woman "in the mood" right NOW... and how to make her your willing "sex slave" to her OWN desire, then I invite you to check out my Special Free Report, "Do You Make These 10 Mistakes And Drive Women Away?"

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