If you want to give your girl multiple orgasms you have to be a man in the bedroom or you're not going to do the job for her.
It's as simple as that. If you're a bit of a follower instead of a leader, there are a few things you can do to improve your "man status" under the covers. Believe me when I say that this is one of the most important lessons you will ever learn about women.
This is NOT about being a bully or abusing women, by the way, but it IS about taking charge between the sheets because that's what she really wants.
Sure, a bit of "romance" is OK once in a while, but if you really want to give her those name-screaming, back-clawing multiple orgasms, then forget all that and go "caveman".
Take Charge!
No woman likes a wimp in bed. You cannot ask her permission for every little move you make. "Honey, do you want me to lick you? Would you like to try it missionary style? Do you want to do it Doggy style? Sure she'll want to do it Doggy style, but you're going to be the Bitch.
You have to take command. Once you have her naked an all ready to get it on (note here... take command does not mean force her when she says no or take her in her sleep) be the one to tell HER what you're doing. That's right, tell her to get on her knees, tell her you won't let her cum until you say it's okay and then make her BEG you to give her an orgasm. Be the man.
Talk Dirty
Just as much as women don't like wimpy men, they also don't like quiet men. I can tell you right now that she wants to hear you moan, she wants to hear you go "OH, God, right there!" and she definitely wants to hear you tell her what to do!
A little piece of advice, however. Talking in bed does not mean you dictate everything she's doing.
Tell her how good she feels inside; tell her how much you're going to pleasure her. Moan, whisper your commands in her ear, but whatever you do, do not remain silent!
Do Her Hard!
You don't have to leave her bruised and aching after a rough tumble, but you can't get by with giving her naughty commands if you've got the candles lit and you're playing Barry White.
Leave the lovemaking for another day, when you're the man you have to do her hard! Smack that ass and ask "who's your daddy?" Get her into Doggy style and pull her hair as you tell her to cum. That's right, she's yours, she knows she's yours; you just needed to remind her.
Stay in Charge
If you take control, talk dirty to her, and show her you're in charge you're only doing half your part. The trick is to carry this on throughout the entire session. She will try to change roles and she'll try to get back in command so that she can have her way with you. Don't let her. Remain in control and be the man!
It's all relative
Every couple is different and I can tell you all day how to take charge and be the man, but trust me, grabbing your wife of twenty years and smacking her bum with a flogger unexpectedly is not going to make her a happy lover. If you've been making love under the covers at her command your entire relationship, take small steps to manhood.
You don't want her to laugh at you and you definitely don't want to frighten her.
More importantly, you don't want her to think you're having an affair.
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